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Five Types Of Guys Who Are Not Husband Material!
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I woke up this morning, prayed then checked my phone. I scrolled through my text-they were from girl-friends sounding off about their husbands/male companions. The text were pretty much the same; " he didn't come home last night, he want work, he hit me, he's spending more time with his son, he hasn't touched me in months or he told me he was in love with another women". I shook my head in disbelief because they all saw the signs but decided to move forward with the marriage or the relationship. Ladies, don't be in a hurry to have a man around or a husband.

Five Types Of Guys Who Are Not Husband Material In general, women tend to rely on words, whereas men rely on actions. So, when men speak sweetly to women, women believe them, even if they don’t behave accordingly. Men, on the other hand, see how women behave, and interpret the behavior to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what the woman says.

This discrepancy between words and behavior is especially problematic in marriage-bound relationships. So, watch out if your man is one of these five types:

1. The “help me until I’m ready” guy. The “need help” type is totally entrenched in his own insecurities. He only talks about his own problems —never yours — but he wants a lady by his side because it makes him feel worthy. So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him “until he’s ready.” But, guess what: He’ll never be ready, and so, he is not husband material.

2. The “dare to discuss marriage” guy. Since he knows women believe in words not actions, he dares talk about marriage and future plans with you, knowing it’s what you want to hear. But that’s all he’ll do; no further action is ever taken. There is never a timeframe for actions; actions are even never discussed, and if they come up, the conversation suddenly goes in different directions.

3. The “be my guest and discuss marriage” guy. This guy lets you do all the talking about marriage you like. He knows you dream about it; he listens to you discuss it in great detail — where your home will be, what kind of furniture you’ll buy, what kind of wedding you want. And when you ask him about dreams, he says, “Whatever you want, honey.” Always look at his actions. If there aren’t any, if he’s all talk, he’s not husband material.

4. The “bear with me” guy. He finds nice, logical excuses that seem acceptable. You know, he can’t take action now because he’s busy with his career, or his weight loss, or his parents’ needs. You name it, and the statement is “Bear with me.”

5. The “let’s have fun first” guy. He sticks around for the thrill of the game. When the fun is out, he’s onto a new adventure and a new thrill. He’s not here for future plans or kids or family or even settling down and confiding in one woman. He wants and talks about fun and about sex. Whenever you talk marriage, the face changes, the fun ends, and the statement he repeats is, “You are spoiling the moment,” hoping you’lll eventually drop the subject. If you don’t, soon he’ll be out and about for another thrill.



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SportsFan31313 commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 11:07 AM

Apparently, George Zimmerman is not Husband material. His now estranged wife has filed for divorce, and you will more than likely hear her tell it all. Everything you would want to know about him, and his family.

sebekm commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 11:53 AM

Enquiring minds want to know.

Good advice, PolNat. I also saw an article awhile back that said no woman should ever get serious about a man until she has run criminal and financial background checks on him. This tells you what kind of society we now live in. Start with background checks; then on to the pre-nupt; and end with a no-fault divorce, alimony/child support, and a peace bond.

That's "progress!"

timeontarget commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 14:10 PM

Well with relationships being born on the internet what more could be expected.

There is little hope for lasting success in relationships delivered from such shallow roots.

JimmyMack commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 15:59 PM

Ah Tot, the wizened sage of the Blogs.

I guess your words apply to ChristianMingle.com also. You heard of them haven't you, you uninformed toad. Christian Mingle prides it's sight with the scriptures: "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart." Psalms 37:4

To you Tot: they too must be doing the Devil's work also considering that the site differs with YOUR assessment of such things on the internet.

You Tot are a dangerous, walking, talking and writing contradiction.

JimmyMack commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 16:24 PM

All one has to do is give Tot enough rope and he most assuredly will eventually hang himself with his own words. His intellectual depth is vacuous.

timeontarget commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 17:04 PM

HO HUM

PoliticsNation commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 17:11 PM

Not today Jim and Tot...not today..today is "cant we all just get along today" Don't take away from the blog.

JimmyMack commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 18:33 PM

OK PN. I get it. Five types of guys who are not husband material.

#1 Self-righteous Toads that are un-self conscious contradictions to what and how they define themselves.

Ex: Cretins like Tot

sebekm commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 18:49 PM

Lighten up, Jimmy. The Dawgs will pull it out (I hope).

PoliticsNation commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 21:43 PM

Jimmy..you are something else..lol..

Funkentelecky commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 22:26 PM

PN, you are on point big time in this blog. Go on sista!

up2sumptin commented on Saturday, Sep 07, 2013 at 22:33 PM

You know, this could apply to men as well as women.

JimmyMack commented on Sunday, Sep 08, 2013 at 16:02 PM

You are ever so right Up2. And let us not forget its application to Tot's Children of the Devil, the transgendered and all the hermaphrodites out there seeking companionship.

sebekm commented on Sunday, Sep 08, 2013 at 22:12 PM

Yes - I understand they are going to crank up a "Hermaphrodite/Transgender-Mingle" web site soon....

JimmyMack commented on Friday, Sep 13, 2013 at 06:23 AM

We men are a stupid lot PN. Most of us just want to have a beer, see something naked, or watch a football game. We're visual creatures and carnivorously obscene beings entirely content with Miley Cyrus' new image.

Give that sweet thaaanng a pole.


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